My mother has NPD. I so long for a relationship/connection with her yet..I hope you can find one with your mom. IF For some reason it does not ever turn in to what you hope (and I hope it will work out) please know, it is NOT you, it is probably just her mental struggles.
To some extent, I realize I have to just love and accept how my mom is instead of to keep longing for the relationship it seems we will never have.
I do hope your relationship with your mom will come. I'm almost 32. I don't..it doesn't seem it is going to happen for me and my mom.
I hope differently for you. Just know it can take a long time. Don't blame yourself, I am nearly twice your age but can't pull it off myself.
::hugs:: hon. I'm sad you had to go through this kind of pain.
![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
no subject
Date: 2010-01-24 03:30 am (UTC)From:To some extent, I realize I have to just love and accept how my mom is instead of to keep longing for the relationship it seems we will never have.
I do hope your relationship with your mom will come. I'm almost 32. I don't..it doesn't seem it is going to happen for me and my mom.
I hope differently for you. Just know it can take a long time. Don't blame yourself, I am nearly twice your age but can't pull it off myself.
::hugs:: hon. I'm sad you had to go through this kind of pain.